7/09/2008 10:34:00 pm | Wednesday, 9 July 2008
~=+ The Thing About People +=~
Well well... I've been meeting up with my bro quite alot recently. talk about many things. basically... its all about relationship, work and some personal problems and stuff..
And ... the thing about people is that they are oftenly not contented with what they have. at the same time too judgemental over many many many many countless things... even issues as small as a sesame can also turn out to be BIG BIG BIG FUCKING ISSUES.
the snag with my bro is that he dun seem to have enuff of gals... YESH!!! GALSSSSss..... he changes gf juz like i mean... worst den changing clothes... zzz... n now that he is worried that he might get voodoo by her cos she is a bitch who knw some indonesian dark arts... lol. not that i dun believe but i juz feel that he is too guilty over toying with gals' feelings too much...
the next hitch is from tiffy... adui... dis gal.. i so long din hear from her and the next thing i learn about her is that she is having some perplexity with her MOTHER_IN_LAW.... lolsss..... stereo typical bugbear... hahahaha^^
below is de conversation i had wit her over phone:
Tif: fuck shit... mum in law dun like me
Me: tot u n stevo's mum are ok?
Tif: tt time ok. now not. cos she thinks that i dun talk alot to her. so NO COMMUNICATION = NO GD GAL = ARROGANT GAL FROM RICH FAMILY!!!!!!!!!
Me: LOLsss no comments dear.. u r rich enuff to buy a hse n run away wit stevo...
Tif: sad case. ppl are too judgemental. juz cos i chose to marry him within a wk of dating does not mean that i am a bad gal ok !! juz becos i am cos-player i am weird? i can throw away my costumes i dun care.
Me: stevo oso cyber wat... tot his mum shud be used to it?! Oo
Tif: the thing is, stevo's younger bro was once a cyber. but threw it away n run away wit a stereo BITCH.. n she expects stevo to do de same. throw cyber n marry BARBIE DOLL....
Me: erm.. i tot u r normal now. juz like me. normal cos of love.
Tif: look, dress up once in awhile wont kill... besides, we oredi signed the papers in US.. there is no way she is going to change de fact.
Me: how did stevo react to dis whole imbroglio?
Tif: that hell of a mother FUCKER!!! he ask me to POR (boot lick) his mother!!! he say i shud lun (put up with) his mother and try to talk more n dress in colours instead of OWAYS BLACK!!!!!!!!!! I AM HIS DARN WIFE.... I TOT HE SHUD SIDE WIT ME?????
Me: LOLsss .. i dun wana comment cos i am facing the same hydra at the moment.
Tif: u knw wat? i tink stevo shud marry his mother instead of ME!!
Me: *laugh helplessly* reli la dear, i dun wana comment anything at de moment. the dilema i am having now is similar. and de fact that i am adding colours into my wardrobe redi.
Tif: nvm nvm .... catch up wit u soon... going to catch beauty nap.
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at the end of dis horrendous conversation, many things started to flash into my mind..
geezz.... the proposition behind every human being is that they often have misconceptions over what they see, how they feel and what they hear.
i myself am in a labyrinth. and so frequently i keep telling myself to work hard and perserver. ppl judge me cos they dunno me. ppl hate me with no available reason... so i dun wana comment much on tif's case.
someone once told me that the changes i made is for the better of my future and not his. and my transformation is for the good of myself n nobody else. heartlessly.. he never realise that if not of encouragement and hope that he gave... i dun think i would have change in any way or other.
but looking at this judgemental world... isn't most of us cutting ourselves out to fit other ppls' holes and not ours? trying to please others is juz not my cup of tea but nevertheless i am willing to try. if other ppl are happy, so am i.
Enough of shit crap. i dun wana think about my own relationship... i juz let things be the way they are. if things are not meant to be then they are juz not meant to be. going to continue make my dear's present... Oo *yawnz* wonder when den can finish... T.T
~=+SHYNNA LOVES HER DEAR DEAR+=~
